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Gina, I also have very incompatable stars in my marriage. My husband is
wood and I am metal. We are very different in many ways. The way we handle
this is to accept each other's differences and yet we stand up for our own
opinions if they are worth fighting for. Pick your battles wisely. That
way neither "rules" over the other. In this house he has his space and I
have mine. The rooms I spend most time in are good for me, while his office
is in his best location. The bedroom is also in his best location, but if
he sleeps well I do too.
I'm with your husband on his theory of "nature". However, there's nothing
wrong with helping nature along. I use the flying star theory and decide
from that what kind of house it is. It's important to know what the
possibilities of a house hold before you move in. Don't let it be a house
only favorable to him if you will be spending the most time in it! Balance
is the key, for a good marriage as well as a happy home.

Good luck!
Monica

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Subject: the true elements
Date: Tue, 05 Oct 1999 21:56:41 +0800

From: "Gina Tan"

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Hi, I think I am in a deep & major mix up here !!!..now, lets see..,
what I've got here,
but first my info:

My husband (breadwinner) date of birth: 15-January-1955 at 7pm(horse)
and mine is :10-May-1961-9pm(ox),
our current house front door faces South, back door facing North.

Based on yr (8birth) & (8type) in locating for the most suitable house
directions are as follows:
[15.1.55] date of birth fr 03feb1954 to 23Jan1955; male: NORTH house

[10.5.61] date of birth fr 15feb1961 to 04feb1962; female: East house,
of which yr 8house report reveals my husband's 8h chart as: Kan - NORTH
house, among others & mine is Chen- East house. (since the report did
not mention the elements, I believe that we belongs to the elements
Water and wood, respectively, based on the 8Trigrams, am I right?)

Okay, now lets see the section on Pillars of Destiny, here, the
explanation notes says that my husband's birth element is FIRE and mine
is WATER (oops! ... . fire and water! may be too much of me will kill
him!? ..'oh, no,.which also means we need to be with other compatible
elements around to keep our relationship going!!! sadly, the Pillar
Comparison Reports agreed to our incompatibility. well, I really hope
not, like my husband said, let nature takes its course and he, for one
had never take FengShui seriously,.. he believes in nature! say how/what
you like, he still believes-'nature'.

But I am most comfortable and very happy with your free software of
'Self Evaluation Feng Shui Tools - (the results are the same with the
reading from other sources ...)
that is: my husband= Li-kua9-South house & Me= Chen- kua2-East house
(again,no mentions of elements, 8Trigrams-my guess would be: south house
element= fire and east=wood?)
Considering the above elements (fire~wood), they seems to have resemble
of our characters & resulting productively in many ways. am I making
sense here? ! I'm really lost.

Okay, seriously, what I would like to know here are how to find out the
most suitable house directions / facing base on the breadwinners' birth
date plus what / which element should I use for superimpose and so
forth. We are in the process of moving into another house. I really
hope you can assist me, and thanks.

Gina Paula T













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